Showing posts with label Andrew Wilson. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Andrew Wilson. Show all posts

Friday, 19 October 2007

Thoughts while pedalling: Why am I doing this?

If you don't cycle, you might wonder what goes through my mind when I'm on the bike. Now I don't know what the 'standard' is, or indeed if there is any particular norm. I do know that by nature, I subscribe to what I call the Dirk Gently method of thought.

Dirk was the principal character in a couple of Douglas Adams detective stories. He believed in the interconnectedness of all things and would often simply go where chance and fate would lead him believing that he may not get where he wanted to go, but he would wind up where he needed to be.

My thinking is kinda like that too I guess. Case in point: one morning I mentioned to Mei that I knew I had something on the next evening but could not remember what it was. I finally recalled the event and sms'd her. She thought I'd checked my diary but the truth was that I was at the coffeeshop opposite my office having a cup of coffee when a guy with a goatee walked past. He registered on the edge of my consciousness and I had this thought that he looked like a designer. From there I started thinking about design work in general, then thought about my recent interview on Asia Business Report when I gave an opinion on Sony's brand image, and then I started on what other stories I could dig up that might be newsworthy, then thought of the (then) upcoming global brand forum, and finally remembered my friend Nantha who was in Singapore from KL for that and it was indeed Nantha whom I was to meet the next evening.

Rather convoluted I know but that's my thought pattern. And I usually get where I need to be as well.

One of the stray thoughts I had while cycling to Batu Pahat was about an interesting recent short conversation I'd had with one of the guys I work with, Andrew Wilson. In preparing some material for our work, we discussed the concept of 'Influence'. What exactly is influence?

My first considered response was that it is the ability to effect a particular decision and action in someone else. As we delved deeper into this, it became clear that influence is a little wider and more complex than this. You can influence thought without action. You can influence action without thought.

You can influence through contact. And you can too, with no direct contact.

And then there are the forms of influence - the whole spectrum from direct coercion through to inspiration. Andrew will doubtless have more to say on his Whole Manager blog soon.

As I cycled however, I realised that the idea of influence indeed underpins the whole notion of this ride. It is in fact, a very good study of the whole concept of influence.

As things stand, I have a number of goals (listed here in no particular order):
i. Get from South to North
ii. Meet people and interact with them
iii. Discover things, especially values we think we've forgotten
iv. Get back safe and sound
v. Write about people - especially positive things
vi. Have a good time
vii. Get fit
viii. Don't get broke - literally or figuratively
ix. Meet old friends
x. Take pictures and videos and collate material for a book a film whatever
the list goes on a little more.

What isn't on that list is any direct desire to change people. That is not to say I have no such wish. The truth is that I would be lying if I said this is a strictly personal journey.

The very act of planning this has made some of you think about the whole idea. You would have thought about what you'd read, considered my motives, weighed up my chance of completing the journey, and even thought about why I bother. By doing this, you have unavoidably examined your own natural instincts, your bias and your prejudices. You have challenged your own perceptions.

I have influenced your thoughts. I have influenced you.

Now, I may not have made any palpable difference in the manner in which you approach your life. Influence need not, as I have begun to understand, necessarily create the influencer's desired result. In this case, it doesn't matter.

I have a relative who is so cynical he could freeze an egg in boiling water. Whatever that means. He is cold about the prospects this country faces. I think his attitude is wrong and I go back to the notion of 'If you change the way you look at things, the things around you change.'

Cynicism is a particularly devious condition. It weakens not just the people who encounter it, but also the person who bears the crutch of cynicism. I choose not to be cynical.

This morning, on the way from Batu Pahat to Muar, I stopped at Pekan Seri Menanti in Johor and had breakfast in a little Malay coffee shop. What struck me was how there were Chinese and Malay patrons, sitting down with each other, enjoying a good chat over their teas or coffees. I sat down with two gentleman who, as things turned out were DAP and UMNO men. Chinese and Malay. And they sat there, discussing things, laughing and joking with each other and with me, sharing their concerns for the country. And in this little shop, everyone greeted everyone else. They all shook hands. Malay, Chinese, whatever: it didn't matter. Heck almost everyone shook hands with me!

I stayed for one hour, risking a warm arrival in Muar for the sheer pleasure of seeing my Celebrate Malaysia! ideals displayed right before me. Cynicism? Bah! Who needs it?

The ideals I professed to be searching for are indeed out there. I like to think that my ride is influencing some people - maybe you. This morning, I sat and was instead influenced by a couple of older gentleman.

And for these two reasons, I am doing this ride.

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Wednesday, 17 October 2007

Day 1 Tanjung Piai - Kukup Part 2

Distance: 11.37 km
Average Speed: 19.2 km/h

I had decided it was necessary to start the ride from Tanjung Piai - everywhere we looked we were reminded of our geographical position vis-a-vis the Asian continent, and I figured it made sense to traverse the length of the peninsular from south to north. So back we went to the resort. It isn't really a resort - more a collection of chalets over the sea.

We stopped the car under the shade of a tree and started unloading. Assembling and preparing the bike, I felt a little nervous. 3 weeks before we were married, Mei and I sat on the beach at East Coast in Singapore, taking a break on our usual weekend bike ride. I took a video then and we joked and laughed about how, in 3 week's time, she would be 'Mrs Cheong'. Well, I joked I would be 'Mr Lam'... At that point, I recall now how 3 weeks still seemed such an eternity.

Putting on my cycling shoes, I had a flashback to my dinner conversation with Andrew Wilson shortly after I'd heard of Bill MacDannell's walk and after the Lasobans had thought it would be a great idea to travel through the country like he was doing in America. Andrew had encouraged me and his question that swung things around was 'how would you feel, 5 years from now, if you did not do this?' There was only one path to choose from that point on.

I remembered going home and talking to Mei about it and the poor girl, just half a year into the marriage, had suddenly to deal with her husband cycling off into the boondocks for weeks and weeks. That seemed so long ago.

And now, here I was. The intervening 3 months had flown by and this was it. I'd hardly cycled more than 20 kms a week in the last 25 years, and until I started training for this ride, was a few kilos in weight and a couple of inches around the waist too much for physical efficiency on a bike.

Nervous, yes. Excited too. And more than a bit sad. In the two years I've known Mei, my life has never been fuller nor more complete. We've hardly spent more than a working day's hours apart, and I knew that contrasting my resolve to do this ride was the feeling of not having Mei by my side at the start and end of each day.

I got on the bike - having never ridden it with a full load before (call me stupid, call me foolish...). I couldn't get the back wheel pumped up to the desired 45psi and later discovered it was indeed possible to do that, if you pumped when the bike WASN'T fully laden. Call me stupid...

All set, a great big hug from Mei and heartfelt 'I love you' and 'take care' and off I went. Having so much weight at the back made the front lighter than I've been used to but I settled in. Good thing I insisted on a very short first ride.

Through Kampung Serkat, past the UMNO Hari Raya bash, and people were smiling and waving at me. It felt good - the cycling was easy and the mood was great. A few minutes into the ride and I began to wonder where Gan and Mei were. I couldn't see them in my mirror and then I panicked and started patting my pockets thinking maybe I'd hung on to the car keys by mistake...

The silver shape of my car eventually appeared and with a horn, some last shouts of encouragement and smiles, they were off.

I got in to Kukup with no difficulty at all - 11 kms is nothing of course. Lili had given me the number of 'Kukup Floating Chalet' and I'd contacted Oliver Lee earlier. I rang him when I arrived and found his place not far from the main road, off the main Kampung Air Masin road.

They called me John ‘Two-Hits-With-One-Stone’ Cheong

An old memory came to me today when Mei and I went cycling in Balik Pulau. After 2 months of being cooped up in our flat, it was great...